The Classiest Man on the Face of the Earth
Dunkirk, NY – Roger Angell, the great baseball writer, has said that he has never heard Derek Jeter utter an interesting word. Jeter, who recently passed Lou Gehrig as the all-time hits leader for the NY Yankees, has passed his 15 years in major league baseball with something that we see less and less today – class. It’s not that Jeter knows all the right things to say; it’s that he also believes in what he says. He is circumspect, careful with his choice of words, leads by example, keeps a low profile off the field, is consistent in his routines and his approach to the game, and plays the game honestly from top to bottom. That, I think, is what defines class. He may never have an interesting thing to say, but that makes him an interesting man to study and emulate.
I think that’s what is missing these days in much of what I read and see around the theatre and entertainment world today. Fewer and fewer people seem to want to be people who cultivate a sense of class about them. Kanye West’s recent outburst is only the most egregious and visible example of the lack of class around us today. It pervades much of our society in ways subtle and obvious.
“Class”, of course, is hard to define. One can be said to have “class” if one has the appropriate materialistic trappings; the right clothes, the right car, the right partner, the right friends and colleagues. Other people have “class” if they conduct themselves well in public, are polite and respectful, complimentary of others, assertive but not aggressive, accomplish tasks on time, make an ideal work partner/team member, keep their word, and back up what they say with deeds.
At times I try to teach my students the value of class, but often it seems a long uphill battle. They move about their day in an endless stream of endless youth. It seems that college is not the place where people learn class. You can provide them the best role models possible, but they do not seem to realize that behavior is there for modeling. Even when you present them with people like the late Karl Malden, a man who had more class than he knew what to do with, they seem to react with a far-away look, somehow not comprehending that how he went about his business is perhaps how they should go about theirs.
One of the great things about Jeter breaking Gehrig’s record is that one classy man broke another classy man’s record. It was a nice reprieve from this and this. -twl
(UPDATE – How could I have forgotten to give a shout-out to Congressman Classy?)


